Woman, 29, reveals she made her husband shield his eyes during EVERY nude scene in Oppenheimer after he left her suffering from 'betrayal trauma' by secretly watching PORN Jourdan Kehr, from West Virginia, revealed she researched the film ahead of time She made her husband rest his head on her shoulder during the steamy scenes The photographer, 29, said he had been 10 months 'sober' from watching porn By Raven Saunt For Dailymail.Com Published: 21:33, 17 August 2023 | Updated: 22:34, 17 August 2023 e-mail 2 View comments A woman has revealed that she made husband shield his eyes during every nude scene in Oppenheimer after he left her suffering from 'betrayal trauma' by watching porn. Jourdan Kehr, from West Virginia , has candidly taken to TikTok to divulge how she researched the blockbuster ahead of time in order to 'have a game plan' with her partner. The 29-year-old, who works as a photographer, made him shut his eyes and rest his head on her shoulder during the film's sex scenes featuring Florence Pugh . Jourdan had previously spoken out about suffering from 'trauma' after finding out her husband of nine years had watched porn - but said that he has since been 10 months 'sober.' Jourdan Kehr, from West Virginia, has candidly taken to TikTok to divulge how she researched the blockbuster ahead of time in order to 'have a game plan' with her partner The 29-year-old candidly revealed: I research everything before we watch it but especially this movie' Jourdan, who works as a photographer, made him shut his eyes and rest his head on her shoulder during the film's sex scenes featuring Florence Pugh In her clip about Oppenheimer, which has so far been viewed more than 316,000 times, Jourdan responds to a user comment which asks for advice for a couple 'wanting to watch Oppenheimer but being fully afraid of the Florence Pugh scene everyone is talking about.' To which, she begins: 'Okay so I research everything before we watch it but especially this movie. Poll Do YOU let your partner watch sex scenes in movies? Yes No Do YOU let your partner watch sex scenes in movies? Yes 14 votes No 3 votes Now share your opinion 'Obviously I heard about it, yes we wanted to see it, it has an amazing rating. 'We prepared ourselves. I didn't know when the scene was going to happen and I also didn't understand how the scene was happening. I thought it was just several minutes straight of...' Jourdan mouths the word 'sex' rather than verbalizing it, before continuing: 'But it wasn't, it was actually broken up into like it would be a flash of that and then it would be a flash of normal life and then it would be a flash of the scene. 'It was very back and forth so it was really difficult to avoid it.' She said that she and her husband talk about everything and form a 'game plan' everywhere they go including concerts and events. Jourdan then continued: 'So essentially what we did was when the scene came up, when things were happening, he literally closed his eyes and laid his head on my shoulder... And then I would just let him know when it was over.' @thatsnotlove Replying to @mschellyyy27 #fightforlove #thatsnotlove #thatsanaddiction #infidelity #marriageadvice #marriagelife #monogamy #corn #cornaddiction #healing #trauma #recovery #betrayalrecovery #betrayaltrauma #betrayal #ihatecorn #coercionisnotconsent #coercion #cancelcorn #motherhood #womanhood #radicalfeminism #radfem ♬ original sound - ThatsAnAddiction Other social media users were quick to flood to the comments to share their own thoughts on the bizarre arrangement - and they did not hold back She concluded: 'I will tell you right now it took nothing away from the story. Him not looking at the screen during did not change the storyline, did not change anything.' Other social media users were quick to flood to the comments to share their own thoughts on the bizarre arrangement - and they did not hold back. One wrote: 'It's dysfunctional to not be able to handle seeing scenes like this.' Another added: 'No way is it that big of a deal.' And a third asked: 'Why is this an issue for couples, at all?!' Despite the backlash, Jourdan uploaded another clip to the video-sharing platform a few days later to reveal that she has been suffering from 'betrayal trauma.' She told her followers: 'I went through betrayal trauma 10 months ago after nine years of marriage, 10 years of being in a completely monogamous relationship. 'I was fully under the belief that he didn't look at other women, he didn't self pleasure at other women, porn was the furthest thing from my mind. 'I never would have thought or believed that he was using porn but he was and I found out about it on September 17, 2022. That was the hardest day of my life. It was the hardest following weeks and following months of my life.' Despite the backlash, Jourdan uploaded another clip to the video-sharing platform a few days later to reveal that she has been suffering from 'betrayal trauma' @thatsnotlove #fightforlove #thatsnotlove #thatsanaddiction #infidelity #marriageadvice #marriagelife #monogamy #corn #cornaddiction #healing #trauma #recovery #betrayalrecovery #betrayaltrauma #betrayal #ihatecorn #coercionisnotconsent #coercion #cancelcorn #motherhood #womanhood #radicalfeminism #radfem ♬ original sound - ThatsAnAddiction Jourdan continued: 'Betrayal trauma has changed me as person inside and out. 'It put me through a lot of stress. It put me through a lot of pain. It put me through sickness. It put me through depression. Gave me a lot of stress and a lot of anxiety. 'I've come a long way in my healing... I'm still with my husband and I'm so happy and I'm so thankful and I'm so proud to say that he's been sober for 10 months. 'He's been doing all the steps, all the work, everything necessary to not only change, stay sober and reach long-term recovery but to also assure me that he is creating a safe space, he is becoming a trustworthy person and he is showing me the signs that I need by his actions, his behaviors and his patterns that he is going in the right direction.' She concluded by saying 'I'm really happy with how far I've come' before offering help to other men and women going through similar experiences. Share or comment on this article: Woman, 29, reveals she made her husband shield his eyes during EVERY nude scene in Oppenheimer after he left her suffering from 'betrayal trauma' by secretly watching PORN e-mail Add comment Comments 2 Share what you think Newest Oldest Best rated Worst rated View all The comments below have been moderated in advance. View all The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline. 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